Dom & Sub

My references are only from two books; Fifty Shades Trilogy by E. L. James & Burn by Maya Banks. Both pictured the act of BDSM is different from my first opinion of it. I used to think that it is the act of violence, abusing people; a crime. But only after reading those books I realized that it wouldn't fall into that category when it was concentual by both party. The role of being a Dom was a heavy one. Every aspect of his/her Sub life must be taken cared of. Hence being a Dom, one most likely be protective, possessive, domineering, big headed & etc to his/ her Sub whether it was in the bedroom or some called it playroom or outside it. To be a Sub, one must agreed to be taken cared of to the extreme and follow the playroom rules to fault. Which I would think a very hard thing to do in this era. A Sub would also have to agree of the act of spanking, being tied, blindfolded, or any pain inflicting stuff a Dom wanted to do at them. However, the degree of pain being inflicted were only what the Sub agreed upon, not set by the Dom. In other words, a happy Sub makes a happy Dom.